You May Need Creative Community If . . .

Did you know creative types are 8 to 10 times more likely to suffer from mood disorders – depression, anxiety, or bipolar?  There is also substantial research showing that situational factors influence creativity – meaning, your pain or your pleasure will ultimately affect your creative expression. The Dark Side to Creativity

 

There is something else that affects creative expression, community.  For the creative who tends to lean into introversion, community can feel like a lonely and draining “situational factor.”  However, sometimes your feet land next to another thinker/creator/maker … and the conversation feels life giving and purposeful. 

 

I found myself in one such conversation – and I realized, after leaving the table feeling inspired and motivated, I need more creative community.  How about you?  I’ve listed a few of my indicators below:

 

You may need Creative Community if . . .

 

You react to the status quo with a challenge

Questions like “What if…?” and “Why not…?” allow us to redefine possibility.  By challenging the everyday normal, we seek to create something out of the predicable, mundane, or life-less areas.  And at times, the questioning reveals what ourselves or another is holding onto tightly.  Limitations feel irritating when we can see possibility.

 

You seek authentic over popular.   

Creatives seek to stay true to themselves; valuing their personal heart work, they connect deeply with those who expose the truth of their struggles.  In a room full of chatty-Kathy’s, you may feel as though you have nothing to contribute because the depth you desire to give feels too heavy to entrust to those around you.

 

You understand the wrestle of creative work  

Inspired, motivated, disappointed, despair, potential, vulnerable, repeat – Somewhere in the wrestling work of cultivation and creation, you wish someone would remind you of how good you are, how far you’ve come, and how your work will never match the beauty and strength of your soul.  You desire to see yourself in the work, and hope you’ve given room for another to find themselves as well.

 

Sometimes, you struggle to believe in yourself. 

Even the seemingly self-confident creative person often wonders, Am I good enough? We constantly often compare our work with others and fail to see our own brilliance, which may be obvious to everyone else.  There is a lingering fear that you don’t have what it takes – and you could use some encouragement, not flattery, simply a perspective from another creative.

 

You live on the edge of happiness and depression. 

Because we feel deeply, highly creative people can often quickly shift from happiness to sadness or even depression. Our sensitive heart, while the source of our creative spark, is also the source of our suffering.  We desire joy and lightheartedness – however, without an outlet to let the noise out, it becomes trapped inside us.

 

What if the reason we creative types feel depressed or heavy burdened is simply because we ache for community; a community of thinkers/creators/makers?  Let’s create what we long for I’d like to challenge you to examine your friend/family circle – are you engaging with creative people?  If so, I’d love to hear (seriously, I would) how you incorporate and cultivate creative relationships into your life? 

 

As I endeavor to create something I’d like to be a part of – I’ll be sharing what I learned, failures and successes.  It’s a good idea to subscribe to my blog now as to not miss anything!

 

In the meantime, here is a fun quiz to take regarding your creative type –  https://mycreativetype.com/  I’m a Dreamer, what’s yours? 

 

Blessings,

How To Experience Contentment In Uncontrolled Circumstances

Anyone else feel like they’re on a roller-coaster of emotions? This ride we’re on has us locked in and yet we still feel unprotected. And like my (then twelve-year-old) daughter who screamed with red face and dripping tears until the roller-coaster she was on was shut down – I too feel like screaming, “STOP! GET ME OFF! I WANT OFF, NOW!”

 

We’re happy – we’re sad – we’re lonely – we’re hungry – we’re joyful – we’re in despair … get me off this ride! If this quarantine has taught me anything, it’s this: we cannot allow our circumstances to govern our contentment.


 

 

If I make more money – If my kids obey – If my spouse changes – If my health gets better – If we can get back to normal . . . then, I will be at peace – content and happy. Friend, are you resting your contentment on the spinning plate of circumstance?

 

“Not that I am speaking of being in need, for I have learned in whatever situation I am to be content.  I know how to be brought low, and I know how to abound. In any and every circumstance, I have learned the secret of facing plenty and hunger, abundance and need. I can do all things through him who strengthens me.” Philippians 4

Our key to contentment is found in those last words – through him.

 

Contentment is a person who is not governed by circumstance.The good news is that, through Jesus, there is no circumstantial contentment.  Paul experienced both abundance and lack, he experienced both welcoming and rejecting – and yet, Contentment was his guide. God’s love is not contingent on our circumstances, we can be confident that we can never disappoint Him. When I am disappointed (in myself, others or circumstance) it’s because I had an expectation that went unmet.

 

Jesus holds no expectations only invitations.  

 

Because He lives in us – we can live through Him with the same love that has no expectations and no circumstantial contentment.

 

Contentment is experienced through Jesus by letting go of our expectations. Friend, letting go of expectations is hard. We hold a solid grip on what we expect. We expect our kids to live and behave a certain way – We expect a paycheck for our labor – We expect justice – We expect people to uphold our beliefs – We expect people to love us, forgive us, and value us … what we expect can gain complete control over our contentment.

 

What if, like Jesus, we lived without expectations? Folks, I’m trying to sink my roots deeply into this. I want to harbor NO HARD FEELINGS toward others, toward our government and toward this season. And that means, I must let go of expectations and love the way Jesus loves me – without expectations that lead to disappointments. It’s in the disappointments we are seated on the roller-coaster. 

 

We cannot disappoint God – knowing this brings Him closer to us. As we become more aware of His love, we’re more able to extend that love to another. We’re more able to LIVE that love in the season at hand – the same love that knows no expectation, simply meets us where we are but changes and softens our heart. This is “through him” … through Him we experience contentment – because He is Contentment. 

 

With love,

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